Love is Space.

I had a woman not too long ago ask me why guys ask for a break. Well the truth is, after being with someone for a long time, guys tend to feel trapped. They feel as though they are in a box without holes; cluttered. Therefore guys ask the girl for a "break". The down side of this is that most girls think of this as the guy wanting a break up. Honestly, it usually has nothing to do with that. The male mind works only so fast, it needs time to rest. These "breaks" allow them to do just that, create some space, let the mind free up, and come back better than ever. Breaking up with a loved one after being with them for a good amount of time is hard. Doing so over a misunderstanding is even harder. So if you don't want the breaks to come upon you in your relationship, give the guy some space from time to time. You'll be surprised on how much it helps. Remember trust is key in a relationship. 

Big V.

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Ideas and/or Whatever You Want!

Okay so instead of me coming up with topics out of my little noggin, why don't you guys help me out. You can email me any ideas you have, or things that you are experiencing in your life that you would like help with. Advice, thoughts, anything goes. 

So just hit me up at Autiger213@sbcglobal.net (Don't spam me). Let me know what's on your mind and I shall do my best to help you out! 

Thank you all!

Big V.

Trouble With Friends.

So it seems as though there have been many friend issues going on lately. It's a part of nature and is bound to happen. Most people always say, "Why does this happen to me?" The truth is, it happens to everyone. Problems with the people you hang out with most are unstoppable, and truly only make you stronger. Some arise from foolish things, while others come about from serious matters. Now foolish and serious is defined differently by every person; but on a broad basis, either complication is worth fighting for. Whether you were at fault or not. Becoming the bigger person and trying to fix a friendship is much more valuable than to sit and gossip about the person or argue with them. That gets you absolutely no where. Instead of wasting the time whining about what's going out, solve the problem, and be on your way. I'd rather be with the people that mean the most to me than fight with those people to see who's right. Life's short, live it up. Make memories with the friends you'll be thinking about when you're old, and think back and the funny things you once did; not the fights you had. 

This is Big V, signing out.